
*the problem? far far away right? yeah right.*
You have been warned.
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Really, I never understood why men in a relationship dont know how to communicate. First when I say one sentence, they cut in with 10 other sentences. And that pisses me off, because they have such short attention span. And when I do voice out the 'greviances' they just turn and walk away and pretend they never hear anything or nothing of that has ever happened.
No, a kiss doesnt make things dissapear. Neither does baby talk.
Neither does getting angry when I subsequently bottle up my feelings and refuse to talk (because you refused to talk and cut in on me all the time anyway, so whats the damn point?).
One more thing, they have such short attention span that when I am discussing something damn important, like, how I dont like certain things they do, they suddenly change the subject and go "oh you know what? so and so TV show is coming out" or something totally irrelevant like that. It makes me feel that whatever I am saying is so unimportant and not worth wasting your time over. So therefore I shut up. Every time I say, CAN YOU pleaaase LISTEN TO ME? They will say "YES I AM LISTENING" but rarely do anyway. Their mind is always about what is on TV right now and how to get out of this convo.
And you still wonder why women bottle up so much of their feelings and let out an atomic bomb later. Or become quiet after a certain action they take. ITS because men NEVER bloody listens to what women tell them what they dont like. THATS why they keep repeating the same damn mistakes and STILL WONDER WHY women are angry.
Really, is it not wasting my time talking over and over again? They say "Yayayaya I KNOW OK?" But repeat it again. Men are so damn dense in that way.
And still, women wonder why they needed men in the first place. I am still wondering....